Missing Someone?

Missing someone is such a feeling which you can't simply ignore. Every time you heard this word around you or inside you that "I'm missing some one". Why we missed someone?

Is this love which force us to miss someone, when they are not with us?

Or just familiarity?

Or companionship and comfort you feel when you're with someone

Or you need them around you, He/She has something which makes you happy, relax or give feeling of completeness (means feeling that if you have the person , you feels like you got everything ).

Or change of status of your Mind,I mean to say that if you have no work and nothing to do and then if you have enough time to start reviewing your Past, and that time you started thinking or missing someone?

So in simple word we can't say why are we missing some one but yes we can say that its one of the above.

You can say that missing some one is a kind of feeling comes when the Person is not with you, with whom you shared you Joy, Happiness, dreams, meals, daily discussion, argument etc..

You don't have to make an effort to miss someone, its inevitable, and I observed that it comes only when you are alone and has ample time to access your hidden memory. Or in other word Missing someone expose you to loneliness. It also let you know that you have feeling of emptiness.

We miss our Parents when were not with us, because of their love and care, we miss our Parent because they taught us everything about world and difference between right and wrong.

One of my fried called me yesterday..and asked me some thing like below:

Did you ever come across feeling where you are missing some one and feel very bad because you know that other person ( To whom you are missing) never miss you. Sitting alone, looking around something and thinking that do you mean something to him/her? Trying to refresh the Orkut site each 5 minutes to see whether he/she is online or not and you know that even he/she is online He/She not going to respond you. Every second opening the Gmail/Google talk to see whether he/she is online or not to chat even though you know that he/She may be put you in rejection list or may be She/He is invisible status.

Opening the facebook and tried to see whether he/She is online or to get one glimpse of Him/Her. Checking your missed call list to find out whether you missed the call because not its more than 6 month he/She may call you. Open the Laptop and doing something but you are not sure what are you doing [:(].

I take a long breath and respond...Hmmm ..This is really a terrible feeling and not good for any person. I don't know what to say , T told if you feel that you missing somebody in such a bad manner and you are not together that means there is simple reason "Either he/she doesn't love you as much as you or you were never made to be together.

But don't worry, its not like always Missing some one gives you the horrible feeling, some time this also force you to know that particular person has some importance in your life. You still love them and allow you to think that you still care about them.

Na Jaane Kyun, Hota Hai Yeh Zindagi Ke Saath
Achanak Ye Mann, Kisi Ke Jaane Ke Baad,
Kare Phir Usiki Yaad, Chhoti Chhoti Si Baat,
Na Jaane Kyun......Na jaane Kyun