Geeta Upadesh: Truth of life

There was Vote on 13th May 2009 in Kolkata; as a result we got one day vacation to Vote. We got a mail from My Manager that Security will not allow us to enter in Office as there is vote during Vote hrs ( 7 am to 5 p.m.). As I used to work in night shift and my working hrs starts after voting hrs , there was chance for me to come to office.

I wake up late that day I went early in night around 1 a.m. (14th May) to Praveen's room and then saw that one guy name Shashank is still awake and we started gossiping.

After discussing lots of thing we stuck a normal story of break up and twist in love. Like X has recent break up, He/She is not able to control her/self etc.Then suddenly Geeta few lines struck in our mind and He started saying:

Tum kya laye the jo kho diya .

Jo mila yahi se mila, jo khoyega yahi pe khoyega..etc..

The line which makes us laugh was as below:

Jo tumhara hai, wo kal kissi aur ka tha, parsho kisis aur ka hoga..

You can easily understand what the meaning of above line is ( We stuck on these line as Girl was marrying to another guy in our gossip). And we had lots of fun on this line. After that Shashank went to sleep.
And the above line which we enjoyed like Jokes started forcing my mind to think like anything. My mind was asking me like a kid, dad answer following:

Why not we are ready to accept this fact?

My mind hanged-up for a while like Intel P2 processor with 128 RAM which trying to run a heavy application, and like a blue color OS dump, answer was 'Boss go for sleep, you are human being and it isn’t easy to follow these things. It’s good to read, but it’s not possible to follow'.

I have a problem, I can't forget anything so easily, and it was good when I was kid or student but now-a-days it’s very painful. I came next morning to office and trying to understand what this Geeta Upadesh trying to point in our life with help of our all time best friend Google.

After visiting lots of pages, I realized if it’s so much easy to follow then why not Radha has followed those things, who was mad in love of Lord Krishna? If its that much easy then how a great person like Dronacharaya loose his concentration and lost his life after hearing a single line "Ashwathama mara gaya(haathi)" from Yudhisthir( Ashwathama was Son of Dronacharya).

I didn't understand other thing it was only Arjun who undrstand these things? And does he not loose his mind after Abhimanyu death in War? Or there may be other way around that After Abhyimanyu death, Arjun becomes like person who wants to take revenge of his Son's murdered. There is 1000s example. We live in this word only because we have emotion/relation. Who live for themselves? If we don't have emotion/relation then I think there is no meaning of life. And if you are a person who has emotion then forget about Geeta and start your noraml work [:P]. Geeta upadesh may help you like listening a sad song when you had recent break up, I mean to say a kind of Santwana.

I messed up in these question and end up with a simple thing it’s a holy book who tries to show you the fact of life or Secret of life or secret after life. And for me it’s impossible to think the way it’s written, but I do unsuccessful try and will do. What about you?